To all those children of mentally unstable mothers, they must never take on board the guilt that they are responsible in any way for their mothers illness or making her suffer.

this is all about control and power and they live by taking your energy and your soul. so you must establish a system for yourself of protection whichever way you can. devise strategies so you have interaction on YOUR terms not theirs. unfortunately this can also be draining but in our situations we are looking for the lesser of all evils. ie there is no perfect solution so we aim for the best options we can live with. love to you all.

guru